Your Ultimate Valentine's Day Gift Guide
By Andi Breitowich
By Andi Breitowich
Whether you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom or grace yourself with some extra feel good lovin’, we’ve done the hard work for you and curated the ultimate Valentine’s Day gift guide. February 14th doesn’t have to involve a hard-to-get reservation, overpriced Uber, or a plush teddy bear, because these gifts will take your holiday to a whole new level and last you all. year. long.
Say hello to your new favorite partner toy. Worn during sex, this ring turns a penis into a vibrator and levels-up any couple’s play. The soft-touch silicone ring also comes with four different pulses and has a body-activated touch sensor mode. Lather some lube, slide on the ring, and explore a little pulsating play between the sheets.
This wearable vibrator is the perfect way to enhance pleasure for both partners. It’s worn vaginally during sex, but this hands-free device ups the stimulation for everyone involved. It’s also controlled by a separate remote, so if you’re looking for a little power play, let your partner control the intensity. You know what they say… double the pleasure, double the fun.
Looking for the ultimate tease? This delicate feather is guaranteed to heat things up with you and a partner. Take turns grazing this sleek feather across each other for some sweet and spicy foreplay or keep on hand during sex for titillating role play.
If everyone’s on board, heighten your other senses by wearing this luxury leather blindfold. After all, when one sense is reduced, the others come out to play. The soft leather eye mask is also adjustable, so take turns with your partner wearing the blindfold and test out submissive and dominant role play.
Let the subtle scent of jasmine and vanilla fill the room as the candle seductively burns into a massage oil. Made with natural ingredients like coconut oil and beeswax, the oil is safe to use on the body and will heat up your pleasure (literally). Lather on the oil to massage your partner and see where the moment takes you.
If you’re looking to customize penetration, the Ohnut acts as a skin-like buffer that’s worn on the base of the penis to incrementally help you and a partner find the most satisfying depth. Think four interlocking cock rings placed together and get ready to play with range.
With 366 positions, this book will keep you and a partner on your toes. Try a new position every day of the year (including leap day) and get a little playful. Each position also comes with an estimated caloric expenditure, possible side effects (leg cramps!), and equipment recommendations. It’s like a coffee table book… but for your bedroom.
Nothing says connection like a couple’s vibrator. Seriously. The Mantra brings foreplay, and penetrative and/or oral sex to a whole new level since the unique shape fits perfectly around a penis. Increases pleasure and stimulation for both partners at the same time during penetrative sex, or hold it at the base for oral sex. Trust us.
Anal sex can be intimidating, but this glass training set is the perfect way to test the waters. The 3-piece package can be used by anyone and everyone, and slowly takes you on a journey. And don’t worry, it’s shatterproof.
Explore the world of bondage and kink play with the ultimate play kit. Complete with a leather collar, chain leash, leather handcuffs, a rose ball gag, and a thorn whip, this set is the definition of seduction. Enjoy fantasies, find new turn-ons, and explore the line between pleasure and pain with this 5-piece, Italian leather toy box.
A real crowd pleaser, you’ll love alone time with the Indulge Rabbit Vibrator. Velvet-touch silicone, three body-resonating motors, and powerful internal magnets make this rabbit stand out from the rest. Use one button to control the two internal motors for targeted g-spot stimulation. Use the other to control the external clitoral stimulator.
Shine bright like a diamond with this uniquely shaped vibrator and reach a new dimension of pleasure. Whether you’re looking for clitoral or labia stimulation (or both!) this stunning toy is large enough to ~pique your interest~ in any and all erogenous zones.
This curved glass dildo is textured throughout to provide the ultimate stimulation since it features pleasure nubs all along one side of the shaft, down to its handle. The sleek design is also ultra-modern; it could be mistaken for a decorative sculpture on your bedside table!
We’ve said it before, but we’ll say it again. Don’t sleep on the lube! Not only will some extra slip and slide increase your pleasure, but this silicone lubricant is made to last (if you know what we mean). It’s also non-staining, glycerin and paraben-free – A.K.A it only has the good stuff.
It’s small in stature, but this petite wand does not miss on orgasm delivery. With 10 powerful speeds, 6 vibration patterns, and a body-safe silicone head, this toy guarantees pleasure whenever and wherever. It also comes with a travel case, so let your imagination run free.
This toy may give the same vibe as any other vibrator on the market, but in addition to its 6 vibrations and 5 intensities, Amy will take you down a sensual journey with the “S” button. Imitating the movements of foreplay to climax/s, lay back, hold on, and enjoy the ride.
Don’t let anal play freak you out, because this kit is the perfect introduction to master the game. Complete with large anal beads, a training cone, body-safe gloves, a deep wash enema, and more, the B Vibe set is a thorough guide to booty play.
Solo play is the perfect way to relax, wind down, and practice a little selfcare, but add this rose herbal bath and body oil to your routine to rejuvenate your skin, body, and mind. Rub it all over your bod (or someone else's if you’re willing to share), and indulge in the sweet scents.
Experience mind-blowing pleasure with this powerful wand and embrace the power of dual sensation. Complete with a double motor, an interchangeable tip for G-spot or P-spot stimulation, and a ribbed tip for clitoral craziness, the Le Wand XO never misses the mark. Keep it nearby and close to your heart because it’s suitable for just about every situation.
Build pelvic floor strength and enhance sexual pleasure with these cutie cherry Kegel balls to increase circulation to the pelvic area, boost stamina, and peak arousal. They’re small, but you’ll be amazed with what a little consistency can do.
Take self-care to uncharted territory with this personal massager. Equipped with a series of silicone attachments for targeted stimulation, the pinpoint vibrator is built for both solo and partner play. It also screams elegance with its gold embellishment and jewel-green color.
Looking to spark conversation and get a little cozy? This deck of cards asks the hard-hitting questions and offers a great excuse to connect with your partner/s. And who knows, things might get a little steamy after some intimate Q&A’s.
Powerful pleasure at your literal fingertips may sound too good to be true, but the palm sized vibrator packs a punch. Hold this mighty vibrator where it feels best for external stimulation, or give it to your partner and let the fun begin.
You know what they (we) say! Lube makes everything better. This blend of water-based and silicone formula provides a sheer and long-lasting slip, without staining your sheets. Enough said.
There’s a reason candles remain a quintessential gift, and this slow-burn soy candle will transport you with its aromatherapy. Whether you’re between the sheets or not, nothing says ambiance like a scented flame. Plus, it’s environmentally friendly and withstands up to 50 hours of burn time.
If you’re looking to experiment with edging, find the perfect fit with one of three silicone C-rings and stay harder, longer. Prolong your pleasure by wearing the ring for up to 20 minutes around the base of the penis to restrict blood flow and slowly build your orgasm.
This mighty vibrator is made with two unique heads, designed for both internal and external stimulation. Experiment with stroking and teasing the erogenous zones on both you and/or a partner, and get busy!
The name speaks for itself, but this toy is the definition of “pleasure for all parts.” With a sturdy plug and silky-smooth shaft, Cocktail promises to deliver an out-of-this-world sensation to both the vagina and penis during penetration. Oh, and the remote control allows for a hands-free experience and a touch of power dynamics (if you want).
From dirty quotes to sensual tips, this book is hot. hot. hot. Whether you’re hoping to get playful or spark a deeper conversation, you’ll get it all in this full alphabet of sex. Keep it on your nightstand and thank us later.
Say hello to your new best friend: a gender-neutral vibrator that offers a rumbling sensation to anyone and everyone. It’s a versatile toy that has six vibration modes to arouse the G-spot, P-spot, and everywhere in between. It’s small but mighty.
Indulge in a full-body massage and erotic stimulation with this 3-speed wand at your fingertips. It’s soft to the touch and is designed to foster connection – whether alone or with a partner/s. The toy also features a touch sensor, which means it turns on when it comes into contact with your body.
You can never go wrong with a bullet vibrator because this toy hides a powerful motor beneath its soft exterior. And don’t be fooled by its petite stature because you never know when you’ll need a little rumble. Toss it in your purse, backpack, overnight bag, or keep it in your pocket. The possibilities are endless.
Nothing says pleasure like a mix and match toy that comes with a small vibrating egg, a mini thruster, and a suction to mimic oral sex. In other words, there’s endless options to stimulate sensation and deliver titillating arousal. Not to mention, the unicorn design is where classy meets cute.
It doesn’t get much better than a hand-blown glass dildo for only $18. It’s sexy and sleek, but the curvy physique is ideal for internal and G-spot massages. Oh, and the lollypop is shatterproof, so it’s perfect for temperature play to heat things up or cool things off, because let’s be real… we can get down for both.
Slip this mini remote-controlled vibrator into your underwear and get ready for an exciting night out (or in!). The toy is unnoticeable from the outside, but your insides will be well aware! You can also set the remote control to microphone settings and Club Vibe 3.OH will pulse to the beat of music.
There’s something effortlessly classy about a white lace romper, and this semi-sheer outfit is perfect for sleeping, lounging, or feeling confident and sexy in the bedroom. Sweetheart neckline, pearl buttons, satin detail, and cheeky coverage. Check, check, check, and check!
Dildos have a good rep for a reason, but this handcrafted porcelain dildo was specifically designed to apply pressure to the G-spot on one end, with the other end perfectly shaped to help strengthen your pelvic floor with Kegel exercises. Double the function, double the fun! Plus, the porcelain retains both heat and cold, so you can experiment with temperature play.
Pinpoint pleasure with this precise, prism-shaped vibrator and learn to tip and tilt the toy to satisfy different stimulation – whether alone or with a partner. The USB charger makes for easy use, and it’s 100% waterproof.
This adjustable lace thong offers the perfect blend between feminine sexiness and functionality. No matter what you wear over it (or lack thereof), the lace rose silhouette in dusty grey flatters every skin tone and body type.
Ten settings, 10 pulse patterns, and it’s waterproof. Need we say more? This tactile stroker offers a combination of intense vibration and strong pulsations to create an otherworldly experience. It’s sensually textured, but offers an adjustable fit to guarantee an indulging occasion.
With geometric patterns and stretchy external material, this toy brings penis masturbation to the next level. Apply a water-based lube to the textured side, fold the toy over your penis, and take it from there.
Last three times longer with this innovative pleasure device (and customizable app) and learn to control your orgasm and prolong climax. The unique system allows you to complete exercises and challenges to train yourself and meet your individual needs, while understanding how to manage the physical and mental aspects of sex.
Prolong your pleasure and stay harder for longer, with this easy-to-use cock ring. You’ll immediately notice a stronger erection, and be wowed by a bigger orgasm. It’s a win-win.
Customize your pleasure with this personalized penis stroker and enjoy air pressure pillows, combined with vibrating pulsations. The multi-function toy offers an unforgettable experience and gives you the power to choose your thrilling buzz.
Level-up solo time and indulge in extra sensation during partner play with a powerful vibrating cock ring. This unique toy has two motors – one on the top and one on the bottom – to stimulate all-around pleasure. Oh, and it’s 100% waterproof and comes with a travel pouch. We’ll let you take it from there.
If you’ve never experimented with super-stretchy elastomer sleeves for your penis, you’re in for a treat. Each of the six disposable eggs contains its own internal 3D design to bring more texture and sensation whether alone or with a partner. Plus, every egg expands to fit all sizes and comes with a lubricant pack to stretch, stroke, and squeeze to your heart's desire.
Target your most sensitive spots with the rumbling sensation of this glass plug. Whether you’re targeting the G-spot or P-spot, this user-friendly 4-inch toy hits the literal spot for powerful orgasms. The plug also comes with a remote control, so if you’re with a partner/s, hand over the reins and get ready for a treat.
Wear these silk boxers under slacks or between the sheets and add an element of class (and comfort) to your wardrobe. The underwear is stylish but functional, and perfect to lounge in, sleep in, or immediately take off!
Andi Breitowich is a Chicago-based freelance writer and graduate of Emory University where she majored in Women’s, Gender & Sexuality Studies and Sociology. She also recently graduated with her master’s from Northwestern University’s Medill School of Journalism. In addition to Pepper, her work has appeared in Women’s Health, POPSUGAR, Cosmopolitan, and elsewhere. She is a mass consumer of social media and cares about holistic wellness and non-stigmatizing reproductive care.
